Why do Men avoid Yoga & 5 Reasons You Should Start?!

Several years ago I observed how few men attended yoga classes - at least in the circles I keep.

I wrote an article about it and have modified it below. I hope you read and appreciate it. Furthermore can you share it with a male friend?

​Driving to teach yoga one early  Fathers' Day morning I was thinking of my father (pictured opposite). He had been a sailor in the Royal Australian Navy. He died young -  61. Dad took great care of his family but did not know how to take care of himself. 
Is this true for men in general?

Fast forward to 2026 and I attend many yoga classes every week in my recent home in Brisbane. While dozens of women attend the classes only a handful of men are present. It is a mystery.

In the beginning yoga was patriarchal.

The origins of yoga are controversial.  Some say it was birthed from early rituals over 5000 years ago. Others claim it was more like one to two thousand years ago; patriarchal and boring.

Men sitting in caves or the forest for long hours every day, year after year. That was it. All the poses (asanas) were sitting poses, to develop sitting stamina for meditation. The focus of attention for the yogis was the breath. In and out, twenty thousand times per day. Apart from ascetics and monks few were  interested in this tedious affair.

*Fast forward to the nineteenth century and Madam Blavatski brought Yoga to the west and to women.  Yoga was hardly known outside of India. It was all but dead. It needed beefing up if it was to survive. Deep in the heart of India yoga exercises were added to a boy’s Physical Education curriculum. This morphing of exercises came from Western Gymnastics, Indian wrestling to become the new yoga. Hatha Yoga was reborn.

Yoga went viral over the next few decades.

Many powerful women teachers emerged in the 1970’s. Yoga became popular with women. It became synonymous with flexibility and the ideal workout for females. Men disappeared from the yoga mats into the gyms to cultivate strength, muscle definition to become chiseled caricatures who walked around stiff and buffed.
 
Medical studies in the twenty first century verified many of the mythical benefits of yoga. Scientific studies link the elements of yoga - mind, body and breath -  to well-being, happiness, mental focus, stress management and more. I have worked in schools, colleges, with vets, lawyers, dentists, executives sharing the fruit of yoga. Even jails and the military are incorporating yoga, meditation and breathing into their routines. The impact of yoga on mental and physical health can be significant.

Who knows the changes we could see if more men embraced yoga. Perhaps it will help fathers, brothers, sons and comrades find peace and balance in their lives. Surely a salient need in these troubled times.

Here are  Five Tips for Reluctant Men who declare they cannot do yoga because they are too inflexible.
 I liken this attitude to not drinking water because you are too thirsty.

Tip 1 - Learn the art of listening to your body:   Let go of ideas such as “No pain, no gain” or “Pain is weakness leaving the body.” Approach yoga with a milder attitude and use relaxation, not force, as a way to stretch. Work in the grimace free range of motion. When you feel sensation use this as a guide line for the depth of the stretch. Too much sensation will create muscle resistance. Too little sensation is non-beneficial. Look for that Goldilocks (just right) sensation.

Tip 2 - Drop comparing: Every body is different. Some bodies are not designed to do the splits because of the shape and size of the femur bone. Women's hips are genetically designed for expansion and flexibility - men's are not. Your history (injuries, habits etc) are unique to you. You have taken decades to sculpt your body. It will take time and practice to adjust. Be patient. Whenever you come to the mat to do yoga, keep your attention on how your body feels (tip 1). Do not compare with anyone else, because no one else has your body or has lived your life. What happens on the yoga mat is between you and God. No-one else.

Tip 3 - Men designed yoga: Three thousand years ago until quite recently yoga was a patriarchal practice. It was designed by men to improve posture for meditation. The goal of yoga was to help people meditate for long periods of time without being distracted by bodily discomfort. Men crafted the art for millennia. 

Tip 4 - Yoga is more than stretching: Yoga incorporates breathing techniques (hundreds), meditation, strengthening, balance, co-ordination and range of motion. This means that some aspects of yoga will be easier for men than women. 

Tip 5 - Yoga teaches how to manage stress and seek relief from chronic pain: Two major causes of lost work productivity include stress (mental fatigue) and back pain. Our sedentary lifestyles sitting for hours at work has led physiologists to name sitting as the "new smoking.” Yoga improves back health and enhances stress management.

OK men. The ball is in your court. When are you coming back?

*(The history of yoga I have depicted above is loose at best. I apologize for any inaccuracies and suggest you read Elizabeth de Michelis’s A History of Modern Yoga (Continuum, 2004) for a fuller account.)

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