Several years ago I observed how few men attended yoga classes - at least in the circles I keep.

I wrote an article about it and have modified it below. I hope you read and appreciate it. Furthermore can you share it with a male friend?

​Driving to teach yoga one early  Fathers' Day morning I was thinking of my father (pictured opposite). He had been a sailor in the Royal Australian Navy. He died young -  61. Dad took great care of his family but did not know how to take care of himself. 
Is this true for men in general?

Fast forward to 2026 and I attend many yoga classes every week in my recent home in Brisbane. While dozens of women attend the classes only a handful of men are present. It is a mystery.

In the beginning yoga was patriarchal.

The origins of yoga are controversial.  Some say it was birthed from early rituals over 5000 years ago. Others claim it was more like one to two thousand years ago; patriarchal and boring.

Men sitting in caves or the forest for long hours every day, year after year. That was it. All the poses (asanas) were sitting poses, to develop sitting stamina for meditation. The focus of attention for the yogis was the breath. In and out, twenty thousand times per day. Apart from ascetics and monks few were  interested in this tedious affair.

*Fast forward to the nineteenth century and Madam Blavatski brought Yoga to the west and to women.  Yoga was hardly known outside of India. It was all but dead. It needed beefing up if it was to survive. Deep in the heart of India yoga exercises were added to a boy’s Physical Education curriculum. This morphing of exercises came from Western Gymnastics, Indian wrestling to become the new yoga. Hatha Yoga was reborn.

Yoga went viral over the next few decades.

Many powerful women teachers emerged in the 1970’s. Yoga became popular with women. It became synonymous with flexibility and the ideal workout for females. Men disappeared from the yoga mats into the gyms to cultivate strength, muscle definition to become chiseled caricatures who walked around stiff and buffed.
 
Medical studies in the twenty first century verified many of the mythical benefits of yoga. Scientific studies link the elements of yoga - mind, body and breath -  to well-being, happiness, mental focus, stress management and more. I have worked in schools, colleges, with vets, lawyers, dentists, executives sharing the fruit of yoga. Even jails and the military are incorporating yoga, meditation and breathing into their routines. The impact of yoga on mental and physical health can be significant.

Who knows the changes we could see if more men embraced yoga. Perhaps it will help fathers, brothers, sons and comrades find peace and balance in their lives. Surely a salient need in these troubled times.

Here are  Five Tips for Reluctant Men who declare they cannot do yoga because they are too inflexible.
 I liken this attitude to not drinking water because you are too thirsty.

Tip 1 - Learn the art of listening to your body:   Let go of ideas such as “No pain, no gain” or “Pain is weakness leaving the body.” Approach yoga with a milder attitude and use relaxation, not force, as a way to stretch. Work in the grimace free range of motion. When you feel sensation use this as a guide line for the depth of the stretch. Too much sensation will create muscle resistance. Too little sensation is non-beneficial. Look for that Goldilocks (just right) sensation.

Tip 2 - Drop comparing: Every body is different. Some bodies are not designed to do the splits because of the shape and size of the femur bone. Women's hips are genetically designed for expansion and flexibility - men's are not. Your history (injuries, habits etc) are unique to you. You have taken decades to sculpt your body. It will take time and practice to adjust. Be patient. Whenever you come to the mat to do yoga, keep your attention on how your body feels (tip 1). Do not compare with anyone else, because no one else has your body or has lived your life. What happens on the yoga mat is between you and God. No-one else.

Tip 3 - Men designed yoga: Three thousand years ago until quite recently yoga was a patriarchal practice. It was designed by men to improve posture for meditation. The goal of yoga was to help people meditate for long periods of time without being distracted by bodily discomfort. Men crafted the art for millennia. 

Tip 4 - Yoga is more than stretching: Yoga incorporates breathing techniques (hundreds), meditation, strengthening, balance, co-ordination and range of motion. This means that some aspects of yoga will be easier for men than women. 

Tip 5 - Yoga teaches how to manage stress and seek relief from chronic pain: Two major causes of lost work productivity include stress (mental fatigue) and back pain. Our sedentary lifestyles sitting for hours at work has led physiologists to name sitting as the "new smoking.” Yoga improves back health and enhances stress management.

OK men. The ball is in your court. When are you coming back?

*(The history of yoga I have depicted above is loose at best. I apologize for any inaccuracies and suggest you read Elizabeth de Michelis’s A History of Modern Yoga (Continuum, 2004) for a fuller account.)

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​Part 1- The Spiel

G’day, legends! Fancy a bit of yoga that won’t leave you feeling like a pretzel gone wrong? I teach via zoom three cracking styles—Yin, Chair, and Vinyasa—each one tailored to different crews and their unique vibes. Although I offer a mint load of other classes in my patreon library including restorative, meditation, pranayama - Pranay what? (breathing), strength conditioning, blah-blah.

Let's dive in for a brief description of my zoom classes.

Yin is your chill-out: long, juicy holds that melt stress faster than ice cream on a barbie. Perfect if life’s got you wound tighter than a kangaroo’s spring.

Chair yoga? Bloody brilliant for anyone who reckons getting down on the floor is a young person’s game—office warriors, seniors, or folks rebuilding strength. We stay seated (or close to it) and still get the good stuff: better mobility, less creakiness, zero drama.

Peaceful Warrior - the lively one—can be flowing moves synced to your breath (like vinyasa), with plenty of options (balance, strength etc), so you’re never stuck thinking “nah, that’s not for me.”

What makes my classes different you ask? I talk straight, move at a sensible pace (no rushing into hero pose like a galah), and chuck in heaps of variations—easier versions if your body’s saying “steady on,” or spicier ones if you’re keen to level up. You’ll feel looked after, not lectured.

Jump on my Patreon platform and choose your adventure: (Prices are in US dollars so don't be shocked when different numbers in your native currency pop up) .
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$25 US/month gets you the full video library—hundreds of sessions ready whenever you are.
Go the $65/month and you score live Zoom classes too, where we can have a proper yarn in real time.

Fair dinkum, give it a burl. Your body will thank you, your mind will quieten down, and you might even crack a smile mid-downward dog. Click here for a peep at my Patreon site.

Sign up today—first week’s on me if it’s not your cuppa. Let’s get bendy, the Aussie way!


​Part 2 - The Science on the Other Side of the Myths

Benefits of Yin Yoga
Yin is the ultimate chill pill—a slow, restorative practice with long-held poses (often 3–5 minutes or more) that target deep connective tissues like ligaments, joints, and fascia.
Key benefits include:
• Deep relaxation and stress relief — Calms the nervous system, reduces anxiety, and promotes better sleep by activating the parasympathetic (“rest and digest”) response.
• Improved flexibility and joint health — Gently stretches connective tissues, increasing mobility and range of motion, especially in hips, pelvis, and spine.
• Better energy flow — Stimulates meridians (energy channels), helping release stagnant energy and emotional tension stored in the body.
• Mindfulness and emotional balance — The stillness encourages introspection, fostering greater self-awareness and calm amid a busy life.
Perfect for winding down after a hectic day or complementing more active practices.

Benefits of Chair Yoga
Chair yoga makes movement accessible without needing to get down on the floor—ideal for building strength and ease gently.
Key benefits include:
• Enhanced mobility and flexibility → Improves joint range of motion, reduces stiffness, and supports daily activities.
• Increased strength and balance → Builds core, leg, and upper body strength safely, while lowering fall risk.
• Stress reduction and better mood → Lowers blood pressure, anxiety, and inflammation through mindful breathing and gentle movement.
• Pain relief and overall well-being → Helpful for conditions like arthritis or limited mobility, boosting circulation, sleep, and feelings of relaxation.
It’s a game-changer for anyone wanting yoga’s perks with extra support.

Benefits of Peaceful Warrior and Vinyasa
Vinyasa is the flowing, breath-synced style that links movement into dynamic sequences—think energising yet mindful.
Key benefits include:
• Cardiovascular fitness and endurance — Elevates heart rate for a gentle cardio boost, improving stamina and circulation.
• Strength and muscle tone — Builds full-body power, especially in core, arms, and legs, while enhancing balance.
• Greater flexibility and mobility — Fluid transitions open hips, shoulders, and spine over time.
• Stress relief and mental clarity — Breath-movement sync promotes mindfulness, reduces stress, and boosts energy and mood.
Great for feeling invigorated and centred, with options to keep it gentle or amp it up.

Each style offers unique perks, and mixing them gives a well-rounded practice.

​Which one are you most curious to try first?

In September 2023, at the age of 68, I was diagnosed with chronic and acute gallstone induced pancreatitis.

After a lifetime of few illnesses and good health I had no idea what was about to unfold. I was not prepared mentally or spiritually for the next months and years ahead.

My first weeks in hospital ( I was in hospital for 56 days) my spirits were good despite the pain, retching and weight loss. Gradually my enthusiasm waned. I lost 20 kg (40 odd pounds), became bed ridden and my doctors said my prognosis was complicated and uncertain.

For those who suffer or have suffered from pancreatitis it feels very lonely and confusing. Leaving hospital I felt unprepared and didn't know what to do, what to eat or when to go back to ER. Neither did anybody else - friends, family - even strangers who were in the same boat.

It is now two years later. I just celebrated my 70th birthday and have started daily yoga and gym classes between pancreatic flare ups. I've regained 50% of my lost muscle mass. Even though I am far from finished with my pancreatic journey I have found contentment and nourishment with the small things.

Normal is the new fantastic.

My yoga practice feels more significant than ever. It was so easy to take things for granted when I was fit and unconcerned about my health.

Yoga has become a sanctuary from the storm of uncertainty that chronic disease brings.

I sincerely hope you can benefit from my story and the offerings on my site.

Please reach out if you ever find yourself in need of someone to listen to your journey.
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Blessings and love.